Rose and Joe were awarded an service award from out parish last evening. It was great honor because we have served for 40 years in a large number of ministries. Here is the talk that Rosalie gave at that event:

Spirit Award Presentation..

Good evening. My name is Rosalie Cook, and it is my great pleasure to introduce my parents for tonight’s St. John Vianney Spirit Award. 
You may know my dad as Deacon Joe, with his joy-filled smile on the altar. From serving at Sunday mass to leading Lenten Stations of the Cross, to acting as Master of Ceremonies for the Holy Week liturgies, Deacon Joe always brings his unique joy and enthusiasm to brighten our church.
Perhaps Deacon Joe officiated at your wedding or baptized your baby.  Since his ordination 31 years ago in 1994, Deacon Joe has performed countless weddings, baptisms, and wake services to journey through life with your families at SJV.   
You may know my mom Rose from her many years as a CCD teacher, bringing her expertise from a lifetime of teaching 2^nd grade in Woodbridge public schools to the children of SJV.  She adored her little 7-year-olds, and especially loved helping them receive their first communion.
Maybe you served with Rose during her many years as a Eucharist minister. Rose even became the leader of the Eucharist ministers, responsible for training and coordinating schedules.
Maybe you are one of hundreds of couples that met with Rose and Joe to prepare for your upcoming wedding. Together, they dedicated many weekends to the PreCana marriage prep program, sharing their spirituality with young couples.  Building on their years of PreCana, Rose introduced the FOCCUS program to personally coach couples preparing for marriage. She loved meeting with couples, and she had a gift for listening compassionately to their stories and helping them overcome obstacles before marriage. 
Perhaps you are one of over 200 people who attended Rose and Joe’s adult faith formation and bible study classes over 15 years.  Deacon Joe’s diaconate formation included 4 years of theology coursework at St. Elizabeth’s College, which sparked his passion for helping others to understand our Catholic faith.   Similarly, Rose participated in the diocesan Partners in Ministry program in 2001 and later, when Rose retired from teaching, she earned her certificate in Parish Life Ministry from St. Elizabeth’s college in 2010. Together, Rose and Joe brought their love for our Catholic faith to the people of SJV.  For many years, they hosted over 20 different series of adult faith classes including “A Quick Journey Through the Bible” or specialized studies like “The Gospel of Matthew”.
Maybe you attended RCIA with Rose & Joe, where they brought their adult faith formation to candidates entering Catholicism. Or perhaps you remember Rose and Joe from their years of leading the Decision Point program to inspire our 8^th grade CCD students to understand and live their Catholic faith. 
When you think of Deacon Joe, maybe you think of him managing the technology in the school or rectory.  Bringing his expertise from his electrical engineering degree and career as a computer expert, Deacon Joe has dedicated countless hours of engineering & tech support to SJV.  From managing the network, the church bell system, and the security cameras, to fixing computers, building our first website, and still acting as webmaster to this day, Deacon Joe has been essential to the technology at SJV. Over the years, he has literally saved the parish hundreds of thousands of dollars by providing free tech support. Technology combines his profound love for his craft and dedication to serving his parish.
As soon as you enter the gathering area of SJV Church, you feel the impact that Deacon Joe and Rose have had on SJV.  Have you ever explored the parish library that they introduced and still coordinate today?  Did you know that Deacon Joe and his father built the beautiful wooden stand for the Last Supper wooden sculpture? Have you ever read the news on the TV screen? Did you know that Deacon Joe does that? 
And he is still working behind the scenes to make SJV financially successful.  Have you signed up for Online Giving? Deacon Joe introduced that technology and still manages it today.  Deacon Joe sits on the parish finance committee, managing the parish and school annual budgets and reporting at finance meetings.
Honestly, my parents have done so many different things for SJV over the past 40 years, that it would have been faster to list the things that they hadn’t done!

This may be how you think of my parents, Deacon Joe and Rose, but here’s what I see.
They are better together. 
Since the day they got married at St John Vianney over 55 years ago, they have dedicated their lives to using their unique gifts and talents to serving God. They do everything as a couple. My dad Joe’s analytic and logical approach complements my mom Rose’s intuitive and people-oriented approach. Their love for each other shines through in everything that they do.
Combining their unique gifts, they have inspired so many SJV parishioners throughout their phenomenal 40 years of service. They have dedicated their lives to learning about our faith and serving God and his people, and their Catholic faith truly comes alive in their service to our church.
They embody the words that my dad says at the end of each mass – “go forth to love and serve the Lord and each other.”  Together, they are a powerful team in bringing the message of God’s love to the people of our parish, through their love for each other.

It is my honor to introduce the greatest inspiration in my life, my amazing parents, Deacon Joe and Rose Ragucci. 

We are just about to celebrate Thanksgiving without the large family gathering. The effect of the pandemic has reduced as many people have been vaccinated although masks are still required for many indoor locations. We are back to church with few restrictions remaining.

This will be the first time in 50 years that we didn’t host the entire family in our house for Thanksgiving. The family is now scattered with many family members in North Carolina and Mike and Tammy having moved to South Carolina. We had an intimate Thanksgiving last year with Rosalie, John and Ben due to the Pandemic restrictions but now we realized that it is too much for us to host 20+ people any more. So we were invited to John’s brothers home to celebrate with the Cook family.

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Well, it almost Thanksgiving and the year 2020 has been a very strange year with the Corona Virus Pandemic infecting the entire world. Here in NJ we have been in some form of “lockdown” since the middle of March with no end in sight. For most of the spring we would only go out to grocery shop and then only early morning. Lots of things were hard to find like paper products. Everyone is wearing face masks whenever we are within 6 feet of another person. No Masses at first – could only watch Mass on the TV, then one “parking lot” Mass a weekend. The hardest part was staying home and only “facetime” with Rosalie, John and Ben.

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Some stories of Rosalie as a child:

• Sleepwalking
  When Rosalie was young (under 10) she started to walk in her sleep. We had an alarm system so when she started walking down the stairs the interior alarm would sound. That would scare her and she would run back to her room and pretend to be sleeping. At the beginning we would not know what happened but once we saw her running back to her room and told her it was ok. Don’t be afraid. It happened for a short time.
• Fainting
  When she was young (early teens) she was prone to fainting when she got scared or had a fever. It was scary at first but she learned to sense it coming on and was able to keep it from happening.
• What else??

Deacon Joseph D. Ragucci 
25th Anniversary of Ordination

Deacon Joseph D. Ragucci has served at St. John Vianney Parish, Colonia, for the. past 25 years. Reflecting on his vocation, he said his path to the diaconate began at st. Joseph Parish, Carteret, where he and his wife, Rose, worshipped for the first 15 years of their marriage.

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